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Eating disorders: What are the signs?

Eating disorders affect both the body and the mind. They are not just about eating—body weight and shape concerns become an unhealthy focus of someone's life, but often this is just a way of avoiding or covering up other issues that they may not want to face. Eating disorders are most commonly experienced by young women and teenage girls, but also occur in guys. Eating disorders can affect people of all ages and from all backgrounds.


Types of eating disorders

Anorexia Nervosa: an obsession with weight loss, controlling the amount of food you eat, starving yourself, being afraid of food and eating, distorted body image—thinking of and seeing yourself as "fat" when you are not "fat".

Bulimia Nervosa: binge eating—eating heaps of food in a short time, losing control, feeling ashamed and then throwing up food, using laxatives or diet pills, exercising too much or going on strict diets.

Binge Eating Disorder: constantly eating too much, eating more food than you need to.

Other eating disorders: there are lots of unhealthy patterns and habits around food and eating, and not all of these are easy to name or define. You or your friend may do some of these things some of the time, or go through periods of unhealthy eating patterns and then feel okay for a while. Just because there is no name or clear list of symptoms doesn't mean that there is no problem—these conditions are still very serious and need treatment.

Eating disorders can be overcome—many people who have suffered from eating disorders have been able to deal with stuff and live happy, healthy lives. But it's important to seek help and support early—this can stop really serious problems from developing. Look out for yourself and your friends—be aware of warning signs: unhealthy eating patterns, rapid weight loss, constantly talking about food, eating or being "fat"—and don't be afraid to talk about what is going on and ask for help.

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Signs and symptoms

It is not uncommon for people developing or suffering from an eating disorder to hide it from their family and friends. Their behaviour—things they say and do—can be the first sign that there is something wrong. Not all people with an eating disorder are thin—weight loss is not the only sign! Some people exhibit may show many signs of a disorder, others will only show a few.

Warning signs of an eating disorder include:

  • Being obsessed with or constantly talking about body appearance, weight and food.
  • Periods of dieting and overeating.
  • Avoiding social situations involving food.
  • Mood changes, irritability, withdrawing from friends and family.
  • Change in clothing style, or wearing baggy clothes to hide weight loss.
  • Making excuses not to eat or wanting to eat alone.
  • Playing with food, cutting food into small pieces etc.
  • Exercising too much.
  • Faintness, dizziness, fatigue, weakness.
  • Anxiety, depression, mood swings.
  • Trips to the bathroom after meals.
  • Feelings of being out of control with food.
  • Not being able to concentrate or think properly, feeling tired and low.
  • Dieting all the time.


What to do if you think you have an eating disorder

If you think you may have a problem, it is important that you get professional help and support from others. You may like to start by telling a friend, a brother or sister, your mum or dad or a doctor. Recovery may be slow while you learn to approach food in a more positive way, and understand the reasons for your behaviour, but the effort will be well worth it.

Telling someone

Telling someone can be very difficult especially for the first time. You may feel embarrassed, guilty or ashamed. You might also be worried about how the person might react.

  • It is important to tell someone so that you are not alone. We all need support during hard times.
  • Remind yourself that you have nothing to be ashamed of.
  • Write down what you would like to say.
  • Phone an anonymous or confidential service, such as an eating disorders foundation or Lifeline. They are there to listen, provide counselling, give you any information you need and you can talk about how you could tell someone.
  • Consider the time and place you will tell someone.
  • Make sure that the person you tell is trustworthy and cares about you.
  • Make sure that you have a quiet and safe place to tell them, and some time to talk it through.


What to do if you think someone you know has an eating disorder

  • It's important to let them know that you are worried about them in a caring, non-judgmental way; even if they are unable to recognise that there is a reason for you to be worried.
  • Encourage them to talk to someone such as a doctor, health professional, school counsellor, youth worker, teacher or family member.
  • Offer to help them ask for or access help—offer to go with them and support them through the process of telling people and getting help.
  • Remember that they are unwell—that it isn't their fault and that they haven't chosen to become unwell.
  • Once support and treatment services have been accessed you can play a vital role in supporting and encouraging them through the recovery process—love and support from family and friends is really important when trying to face up to and overcome difficult issues.
  • Read up and learn about eating disorders and seek support for yourself.

What should I say?

When you think someone you know might have an eating disorder, it is difficult to know what to do. It is ok to approach someone with your concerns but don't push or get upset if they don't want to talk about it, just try to be there for them until they do want to talk about it.

Tips for talking to someone:

  • Try to avoid labelling or judging them.
  • Let them know that you are talking to them because you care and are worried about them.
  • Tell the person that you have been observing their behaviour and you are worried that they may have a problem.
  • Focus on feelings and behaviours.
  • Don't talk about weight or food—the problem is not just about how much they weigh or whether they are "fat" or "thin".
  • Don't comment on their appearance.
  • Don't try and trick them or force them to eat.
  • Be open and honest about your concerns.
  • Be patient and persistent—it may take them a while to admit that they have a problem. The person may not be ready to talk. Remember that raising the subject has opened a door—they may need some time to admit to themselves and others that they have a problem. Sometimes helping others can be a process, and they have to want to be helped. Remember, it isn't their fault and they didn't choose to have a problem.


More information

This fact sheet was developed for Somazone by the Eating Disorders Foundation of Victoria. Copyright © 2005 Australian Drug Foundation.

 

Last Updated ( Wednesday, 21 September 2011 11:57 )
 
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