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Hey my boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 months already, and we started having sex a month after we got together. I am 16 and he is 18 and one night he went over to my sisters and we had sex without thinking, we didn't use a condom because we were so into the moment that we didn't think!!! Then 2 days later he told me that he wanted me to have his baby because he really cared about me and we were gonna be together forever!!

So the next weekend we did it again and I told him I decided I didn't want to have a baby so I told him not to cum inside me and he said I will try not to, and I was so stupid because I should have been more careful and stopped before he could, but before I knew it we were finished and it was too late!! Then we thought maybe it won't work so we talked and we were so into each other it didnt matter if it happened or not because we knew we will still be together, and 2 weeks later I broke up with him and man he went crazy!! So we went our own ways and I got with back with my x boyfriend!

Then 2 days later I find out that I am pregnant and I cried my eyes out because my x was not around anymore and I called him the next day and told him and he said r u sure u want to let me go? So we got back together and he tells me his biggest secret he has hid from me - that he has 2 kids! What a night? Well now we r still together but I am so obsessed and we r still deciding if we r sure if we r ready to even bring this unborn child into this world!!

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break up with that guy asap because if he cared about you he would have listened when you told him you didn't want him doing that.

I think u should have your baby, even if u have to raise it on your own.

Well I think you should have your baby because it isn't the babies fault. If the guy cared about you he should have told you about his other children. Just leave the guy alone, if he does not want nothing for you. I know that it is hard to raise a baby by yourself and don't ever depend on him. Well good luck.

I think that 16 is too young to have a child, you need to grow up yourself and it isn't fair that it should have a father like that. My mother was pregnant at 17 and has been a single mother of three children, it's a long hard life and not one I suggest you take. If this guy really cared about you he wouldn't have done what he did in the first place. He would have used a condom. I suspect his actions are from him feeling insecure and wanting to make you permanently attached to him - thus getting you pregnant clearly he has done it before and will probably do it again. Don't play into these mind games. You are better off looking after you right now not after a baby and a manipulative boyfriend.

i feel sorry for the baby

Have that baby! There are people who will help you take care of it. It is not the baby's fault that you weren't ready. Do not kill your baby!

Is he paying for his two other children and how does he treat his ex? Look at his behaviour closely regardless of if you keep the baby or not because this is how he will treat you and your child. Eventually he will find another naive girl who he will do the same thing to. Perhaps you can talk to his ex about their relationship and the circumstances surrounding her pregnancy. He may be doing this with others already. Look before you leap because actions really do speak louder than words, so what do his actions tell you?

dont blame the unborn baby, it is yourself. the little baby didnt get asked to be brought into this world.

If you are unsure about looking after the baby yourself, then put the baby up for adoption. There are plenty of people here who can't have children and who would probably give their right arm to have a baby this way.

If you decide you want to keep the baby: you can do it alone. He sounds like a manipulator. I would not trust him as far as I could kick him. He has two other children as well. Find out his relationship with them, that should give you some kind of indication to what kind of parent he is going to be with this one.

Do not take it out on the baby. You two made the mess. It is up to you both to fix it.

good luck! xo

i think you should stay with him if he is going to be responsible, maybe he was scared to tell you that he has 2 kids..! that dont mean he dont love you! he was just scared! the baby: have it cause their is no such thing as an abortion!!

omg, be careful. he could have more kids out there.

Love is such a hard one! Try as best as you can to make the decision for you. Ultimately he can walk away never to be seen, which seems like he has done it twice before and third time would be a walk in the park for him sister. The hard truth is you probably mean very little to him, despite what he says! Men are good at saying things but not DOING things, remember that! You have got such a long life ahead of you. His is already damaged, don't let him damage yours. Be really tough. I feel for you girl.

daaaamn girl that sucks. i feel you, i have had some pregnancy scares. good luck baby.

All of you saying 'it isn't the baby's fault' are true, but it hasn't actually developed into a baby yet so she can have an abortion without her killing anything, no more than killing a sperm. I say get rid of it, as you're too young, and you'll become too attached to it to give it up for adoption willingly.

honey, once a cheater ALWAYS A CHEATER. there's someone out there for everyone. dont make the wrong choice and keep the baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow! Please have the child. Even if you decide to adopt it. Please give someone or even yourself the chance to experience the beauty of the growth of a child. There is nothing more rewarding. Please give the child a chance!

wow thats sad just dump his ass

I'm sorry about the pregnancy, but please don't kill the baby. You're a strong girl, and you're going to push that baby out and become a mom. Good luck!

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