Pregnant and alone
Hi i'm 17 and 22 weeks pregnant. When i first found out i was pregnant a couple ov months ago my bf at the time was really excited as he loves kids and has always wanted a baby. He was really supportive and always took me to the baby appointments, till 1 and a half months ago. He suddenly changed he never wanted to see me and he treated me like i was a piece ov dirt.
We always got in arguments and he was stressing me out. It got so bad that i broke up with him. Since then he hardly txts or asks how i am. When he does most ov the time he just yells at me and says how much ov a shit mother i'm going to be and gives me every put down u can think of.
He told me the other day that he hopes the baby has a miserable life because i'm his mum (i don't know how anyone could say that). He also said that he wasn't going to pay 1 cent for me and the baby.
He hasn't been supportive at all. He hasn't brought anything for the baby and he never comes to my baby appointments now and i'm pretty sure he changed his number. I don't know what to do. I feel so alone. Yeah i have support from my family now, but i wanted my baby to have 2 parents not 1.
When i try to txt him to work things out he just yells at me and gives me mixed messages. He says he wants to be there but he can never do what he says.
I'm getting sick ov getting messed around by him. Every night i cry myself to sleep knowing i can't do anything about him and feeling alone. I don't know what to do about him.