I love my boyfriend very much and yet I've realised he has 2 faces. He's nice, funny and cute all around me and with me when he is with most of his friends. But one of his friends is quite mean to me sometimes and when he is around with his friend, he is mean to me too. I just laugh when they make a joke about it but I get really hurt. I still love him a lot. He truly is the best thing that has happened to me and I don't want to let that go.
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leave him, he is not worth your time. my ex best mate treated me the same. leave him before you get hurt.
do wat you feel is right but dont put up with his kaka
You Should Tell Him That You Don't Like The Way He Treats You When You And Him Are Around His Friend. The Main Part In A Relationship Is Honesty, Give IT A Go!
So you like him right? I know it's hard to tell him 'cos you feel stupid sometimes so just let it come freely like, for example: 'Can you PLEEEZE tell '____' to lay off. he's being really annoying and a complete idiot.' do it somewhere where you aren't all by yourselves - not with someone else but at a market or in town.
give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that he doesnt realise its upsetting u so much. just tell him! if he's a decent guy he will feel bad and apologise and not do it again. u could say something like '--- is a bit of a smart arse isnt he' in a kind of joking way and then u can say it kinda gets a bit annoying. and then mention how he (your bf) goes along with it and encourages it. then its not like your attacking your bf but still letting him know dont like how the two of them treat u. good luck girl!
LEAVE HIM! Girl, if he can't be himself around ANY of his friends he's not worth your time. I know you love tha boy, but hunny. There are more fishes in the sea. Go find a perfect one. One that can be himself around anyone.
Talking to him and letting him know how you feel can be a start. If he makes a positive change after hearing how you feel then that would be ideal. If it ends up being the opposite then you might want to reconsider and think through whether you would be happier with or without him.