Love and his first time...
I am 15 and I fell in love with a guy 10 months younger than me.
To begin with we would just make out and cuddle up to each other and not want to be apart. Then 2 weeks after we were going out he came over to my house for a games night that me and my foster family put on. The rest of the people were upstairs and we were downstairs.
The setting outside was so romantic. There were fountains and stuff out the back and tables and chairs. We started making out. Then one thing led to another and he wanted to have sex. I agreed because I felt trusting of him despite my sexual abuse history. We ended up doing it on the outside chairs. Half an hour later we went back upstairs and we did it again in my room.
It is now 2 and a half months later and I feel closer to him than ever before. Now our relationship is strained because of his parents. He's not allowed over my house and they are really claustrophobic at his house! His solution is that we have kids. I want it too, but I think I am too young...
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Hey i just want to say, i am 16, in a relationship with a guy who is 15. hes a year and 7 months younger than me. i fell madly in love with him and i learned to trust him.
i can understand where youre coming from a lot. i took his virginity, and i could only wish that he couldve taken mine. i think in that situation if a problem like that came up it is easy to come to that solution and we probably wouldve too. having kids is not the worst thing in the world, it is actually one of the most amazing.
theres many programs to help people in situations like your current one, people just need to give you a chance. i heard a saying once and it said love is life, everything else, careers and education, everything is just there as a border. love is the main. i wish you all the luck in the world. if you ever wanna talk because we have so much in common, write back on here and we will arrange how to exchange emails or something without other people getting them. good luck :)
My bf and I are the same way and we both want a kid. I'm 15 just like you, going to be 16 this summer. He's 16 and is going to be 17 this summer.
In the end though, we both decided to wait on that. He wants me to do well in school and get through school and college first until we have our 1st kid. Being a parent is a HUGE deal. It's a lot of work, trust me (i've taken care of babies before).
Honestly if I were you I would wait. Whether it be with him or someone else, just wait until you are really really prepared for a kid. It's not just mentally or physically but also finacially because kids cost a lot.
If you are ready though, I will tell you this. The day you have your kid may be chaotic but that 1st moment you get to hold it and look up at the guy you love knowing that you both love each other A LOT is priceless. Good luck and I know you will make the right decision.