Everyone has different preferences of what turns them on. Women/girls usually need more time to become aroused (turned on) and orgasm than men. To orgasm, women also need to feel relaxed and safe.

Experimentation is the best way to find out what a woman's preference is. Having a relaxed atmosphere and taking it SLOW are the first steps. Touching, stroking and rubbing a woman's body can help her become aroused. The vagina gets "wet" when a woman is turned on. Using fingers to gently rub the outside of the vagina can help this to happen too. Once the vagina is "wet", fingers can be inserted into the vagina and different pressures and speeds can be experimented with.

Lots of women have orgasms when their clitoris is stimulated. The clitoris is sensitive and by gently rubbing it, it may help a woman reach an orgasm.

Check out the below links for more info about masturbation, orgasms and, a diagram that shows where the clitoris is located. All the best.