Is there a difference between cumming and orgasms?
I am a lesbian and have had a few sexual partners that i have had an orgasm with. My previous partner would cum but it seemed to be a different feeling than what i got and how it happened. Is there a difference between cumming and orgasms? Why do some females ejaculate and others don't and how is ejaculation achieved for most?
Hi there. Firstly let me say that the term "cumming" means the same thing as orgasm. Both refer to a person achieving a climax. Often people may refer to achieving orgasm in terms of cumming. It is well known that women experience different sensations and intensities when they orgasm. The way one experiences orgasm may differ depending on which part of the vagina is being stimulated. Women can experience clitoral orgasms and internal orgasms as a result of stimulation of the G-spot.
The G-spot is located on the ventral side of the vagina, which is a part of the urethral sponge, as a source of intense female sexual gratification. Upon stroking of this internal vaginal surface, women can experience orgasms of a different type that are equally satisfying, and according to some, are more enjoyable than clitoral orgasms.
While every woman is born with the biological equipment to ejaculate, not all women experience a female ejaculation. There is no clear answer as to why some do and some don't. Amongst those who do there is also great variety in terms of the amount of ejaculate produced. Some women produce a high volume of ejaculate, while others produce a limited amount. Some women have noticed that they experience stronger orgasms when they ejaculate compared with when they don't. Just to be clear: ejaculating isn't orgasm. It can sometimes happen with an orgasm, but it just as commonly happens without or before orgasm, too.
For the most part, women who ejaculate will do so due to extensive and targeted G-spot stimulus, internal and external clitoral stimulus, or, and most commonly, a combination of the two. Women say they tend to ejaculate when they are feeling very highly aroused during the aforementioned kinds of sexual stimulation, and/or feeling close to orgasm. Be mindful that some women may not be able to control if and when they will ejaculate. Hope this helps.