She keeps on annoying me and asking me to go to parties. What should i do about it?
My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. But i think she still likes me because every time she sees me talking to a girl she looks at me angrily. And she keeps on coming up to me at school and making conversation with me. And she sends me text messages and is always trying to get me away from other girls.
I am completely over her. I was going to break up with her but she did it instead so i didn't really care. I felt relieved when it happened cause she gets so clingy and annoying all the time.
Anyway she keeps on annoying me and asking me to go to parties with her and hang out with her a LOT! And oh is it annoying. What should i do about it?
Hi mate, thanks for asking.
It can get complicated after break ups. Even though she ended it with you, it sounds like she has changed her mind. Sometimes people do that. They start missing people and wanting to be back together again and get jealous. But you're obviously clear on how you feel.
Try to avoid her where you can. We don't want to hurt people's feelings but sometimes we need to say something to them (that you don't like her in that way any more).
Girls can be too clingy sometimes because they want to have a boyfriend. Sometimes they don't realise how much that pushes guys away (because you don't want to be smothered).
Be as gentle but clear as you can in telling her how you feel. We can all be in that position sometimes, or want someone who doesn't want us. That hurts for a while.
Good luck.
