Hi. I'm really sorry to hear about your experiences. It's a shame that both of the guys you have tried to start something with have been creepy. 2 out of 2! Don't give up though because there are more than 2 guys in this world.

I don't know how you've grown up, but hopefully you have had some positive experiences with guys. Maybe your father, or extended family? Or teachers? Or other guys your age or younger?

Having said that, if you have had a really creepy experience, it can be really nasty. I'm not sure what these guys did to scare you or to make you feel uncomfortable. Know that you deserve to be in a relationship that feels good, where you are respected and valued. So, I'm glad that you have left these 2 guys who were creepy.

You could talk with some friends about what they did that made you uncomfortable and see if they have had similar experiences, and ask how they've dealt with it. Or ask how they would know if someone was not going to be creepy and that you could trust them. Ideally, talk to another guy about these things so that you find out there are guys who act differently, and who you can trust.

If you keep thinking about this over and over, it's really worth getting some face-to-face support, like talking to your school counsellor about it or your parents. Best of luck!