Will i ever get over being shy? idk if i can ever have a relationship.
Will i ever get over being shy?
I'm 13, almost 14, and i'm so shy around girls. At first i am with guys, but then after talking some it's okay, but I'm focusing on girls here.
When my crush came up to me at school and asked if i liked her because someone told her, i had no idea what to do so i lied and said i liked her as a friend. idk if i can ever have a relationship.
Hi and thanks for writing in. It can be a challenge to ask girls out, especially if you are feeling shy.
How did you go when your crush came and spoke to you? I wonder what would happen if you asked her out? To ask a girl out or to hang around her, being yourself and feeling confident is important. If you feel good within yourself, this will show through to all your friends. Maybe you could find out what her interests are and start up a conversation about those.
Don't be too hard on yourself—relationships take time. A relationship will happen for you when you're ready— you don't have to rush.Good luck.