Hi. I just want to check with you what you mean by "cum". It usually means to have an orgasm, which is a bit like a sexual sneeze. It's a peak of sexual pleasure when you also usually have contractions of the muscles around the vagina, and release some extra fluid in the vagina—it usually happens during sex or masturbation.

This extra fluid makes you feel wet. It comes from special glands near the vaginal opening, and is a natural part of your body's sexual response. It also comes out when you're turned on, which is a step that may lead to you cumming, but not always.

So when you say you're around your boyfriend, I don't know if you mean having sex, or just being together.

Either way, being turned on by your boyfriend and getting "wet" as a result is pretty normal if you find him sexy, even when you're not having sex. Some girls get more wet than others when they're turned on, and most men find this wetness pretty sexy too, so there's no need to be embarrassed about it.

If it's a problem with your underwear or clothing getting wet, you could use a panty liner to soak up some of the fluid and keep your undies dry.

If you are having sex with your boyfriend, you know that you're still pretty young right? (You are under the legal age of consent.) Make sure sex something you want to be doing, not doing to please him or anyone else, and that you're protecting yourself from STIs and unplanned pregnancy by using condoms every time.

Take care.